还是沦陷了，找了小三
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#23 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
生活本身很难，还是轻松愉快一些。话说这个找小三的心态，严格说生物进化角度，多巴胺的释放，情感上的满足，新鲜感的刺激，社会文化的影响，个体差异之类的，包括激素的影响，都是原因。话说以前在国内，参与过一个炮友团的审查，其中一个家庭和睦夫妻恩爱夫人还是肤白貌美很贤惠的那种，结果丫找的都是一个一个丑。我当时正在做作家梦，觉得是很好的一个题材，问他所为何来？结果丫跟我说于是丑的干起来越来劲，越是粗鄙的，越是让他性奋。让人听了真是傻眼。
#24 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
牛逼牛逼。。。 大神请收下膝盖。。。 多年不见这么神的魔幻意识流。。。 上次还是二十年前在西西河碰到个叫“疯神光膀子”的。。。
aixiaoxiaoyu 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 12:39 正常吧，可能每个人不一样。
比如我和师妹关系很好，她老公对我比较有意见。有次她请我吃饭，是因为那片nature上的文章我把第一作者让给了她，这对她申请绿卡有帮助。吃饭的时候她表达了对我的谢意，我是个实在人，就随口说：阿莲啊，你的事情就是我的事情。当时就发现她老公满脸怒色。
有天做梦，在实验室里面清洗胶床，师妹就说，鱼哥，趁着这空隙，磕一炮吧。梦里面我没有自制力，就欣然接受了。俩人正在为偷情热烈鼓掌的时候，师妹老公举着一把明晃晃的杀猪刀冲了进来，咬牙切齿地说，早知道你俩不请不楚，捅死你俩！
当时刀都快到脖子了，我绝望地喊，这是做梦，不要怕。然后喊，快点醒，快点醒 ！
等了很久才醒，浑身都是汗，吓坏了
跳出三界外，不在五行中
#28 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
这个其实挺正常的。长的漂亮的妹子其实长的都差不多。很快就审美疲劳了。但不漂亮的反而各有各的特点。如果你一生打算跟8000个女人造爱，那么你挑出来的后四千个，多半都是别人眼里的丑逼。aixiaoxiaoyu 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 13:38 生活本身很难，还是轻松愉快一些。话说这个找小三的心态，严格说生物进化角度，多巴胺的释放，情感上的满足，新鲜感的刺激，社会文化的影响，个体差异之类的，包括激素的影响，都是原因。话说以前在国内，参与过一个炮友团的审查，其中一个家庭和睦夫妻恩爱夫人还是肤白貌美很贤惠的那种，结果丫找的都是一个一个丑。我当时正在做作家梦，觉得是很好的一个题材，问他所为何来？结果丫跟我说于是丑的干起来越来劲，越是粗鄙的，越是让他性奋。让人听了真是傻眼。
这种情绪，你们这样的小处男是无法理解的。
#30 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
你这说得很有道理，让我这处男有点一下子茅塞顿开的感觉。 我看过一个强奸犯的案子，丫做了许多起案件，案件记录中有一段话很呼应你的说法，说是天地所生，各具性情。女子亦然，姿容、才性、志趣，千差万别。或温婉如春风，或豪迈如烈火。或慧黠善谋，或质朴无华。其心、其志、其行，皆如百花争妍，各有芬芳，不可同量。比也亦然，其有种种，种种不同，色有黑白之异，质有老嫩之别，口有松紧，毛有疏密。
后来我从事情色文学创作，看到这句话，立刻就笑了 If she isn't, what becomes of your explanation? Oh, it doesn't matter; at night all cats are grey.
后来我从事情色文学创作，看到这句话，立刻就笑了 If she isn't, what becomes of your explanation? Oh, it doesn't matter; at night all cats are grey.
shanghaibaba 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 16:12 这个其实挺正常的。长的漂亮的妹子其实长的都差不多。很快就审美疲劳了。但不漂亮的反而各有各的特点。如果你一生打算跟8000个女人造爱，那么你挑出来的后四千个，多半都是别人眼里的丑逼。
这种情绪，你们这样的小处男是无法理解的。
#32 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
人家娃都五个了……shanghaibaba 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 16:12 这个其实挺正常的。长的漂亮的妹子其实长的都差不多。很快就审美疲劳了。但不漂亮的反而各有各的特点。如果你一生打算跟8000个女人造爱，那么你挑出来的后四千个，多半都是别人眼里的丑逼。
这种情绪，你们这样的小处男是无法理解的。
#34 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
“In the dark, all cats are gray” is a quote from a letter written by Benjamin Franklin in 1745. The letter is titled “Advice to a Young Man on Choosing a Mistress”.aixiaoxiaoyu 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 16:28 你这说得很有道理，让我这处男有点一下子茅塞顿开的感觉。 我看过一个强奸犯的案子，丫做了许多起案件，案件记录中有一段话很呼应你的说法，说是天地所生，各具性情。女子亦然，姿容、才性、志趣，千差万别。或温婉如春风，或豪迈如烈火。或慧黠善谋，或质朴无华。其心、其志、其行，皆如百花争妍，各有芬芳，不可同量。比也亦然，其有种种，种种不同，色有黑白之异，质有老嫩之别，口有松紧，毛有疏密。
后来我从事情色文学创作，看到这句话，立刻就笑了 If she isn't, what becomes of your explanation? Oh, it doesn't matter; at night all cats are grey.
The quote is used as a proverb to mean that sex is enjoyable regardless of a partner's physical appearance or social status. It can also mean that individual differences are not relevant in some circumstances.
网上有全信：
https://mrbrinsonenglish.weebly.com/upl ... stress.pdf
Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745).
June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you
mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the
proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in
which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against
entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial
Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but
they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married
and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human
Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he,
her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more
likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would
have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the
odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry
in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with
the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you
should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand
my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are
better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and
more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To
maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an
Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and
are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they
continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an
old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be
attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in
conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is
therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the
Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd
to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his
Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and
Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids
that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank
and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts
continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a
Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two
Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are
grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal,
and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of
Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and
make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable
may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making
an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being
sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
http://www.swarthmore.edu/SocSci/bdorse ... 1-fra.html
#35 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
他从打油诗到阿莲都有点虚虚实实、摹写众生的意思吧
不像那位拉郎配的口味重……
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#36 Re: 还是沦陷了，找了小三
相当于我朝 关了灯都一样？wh 写了： 2025年 1月 10日 16:33 “In the dark, all cats are gray” is a quote from a letter written by Benjamin Franklin in 1745. The letter is titled “Advice to a Young Man on Choosing a Mistress”.
The quote is used as a proverb to mean that sex is enjoyable regardless of a partner's physical appearance or social status. It can also mean that individual differences are not relevant in some circumstances.
记得伊惦记过一老富婆？这是给自己挽尊
“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so. “ – Mark Twain
