恋爱 vs 相亲

[StillWandering]

恋爱，除了 爱，什么都没有
相亲，什么都有，就是没有爱
恋爱，一对一，
相亲，一对多，可能同时相亲好几个

相亲最大的问题是没有感情基础，没有怦然心动，没有共同的经历，没有相遇相知，而目的性又太强。

[媒婆]

Maybe that's because you 相亲 not enough times. You'll meet people with who you click and attract to if you do it enought times. Right. statistically speaking, this is definitly true.

[leuning]

Per the book sapiens:

Arranged marriage/dating is exchanging of money between two families.

Dating is : give money to market (pay for gyms, clothes, costimcs, dining, etc.)

The love is defined by market force: the ideal mate is greatly influenced by popular culture (movies, novels, songs), peer pressure, etc.

[StillWandering]

Maybe that's because you 相亲 not enough times. You'll meet people with who you click and attract to if you do it enought times. Right. statistically speaking, this is definitly true.

I am married I am here to post something to get baozi (points) from BM for fun
Good luck to you all!

[媒婆]

thank you. Same to you and your family

[liwota]

相亲估计是实在没有办法才选择的，能自由遇见，怦然心动，慢慢产生感情，相知，相恋。。。谁会去相亲啊 ：-）