妈蛋，女人过了40，素颜不忍直视
Re: 妈蛋，女人过了40，素颜不忍直视
说的有道理。
我觉得大家都应该阔大视角，直面现实. 女生不要只盯华男，不要只看年纪大的，年纪小的，国内的，其他族裔的，说不定有惊喜呢？华南更是需要征战四方，喜欢年轻的，国内形势比较紧张，周边国家要大力开拓，北美这里其他族裔的也要积极争取，黑人女生特别能生，我是相信我们华男的魅力的，赚钱多找年纪小白人美眉也是非常可能的。
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Re: 妈蛋，女人过了40，素颜不忍直视
如此激烈的竞争形势。我鼓励男生要努力工作，多赚钱，这样或许可以增加胜算，想想就算是小姑娘喜欢同龄的小伙子，丈母娘都比较现实会选择经济实力好的。
另外一条路就是另辟蹊径，考虑同龄或年纪比你大点的女生，性别比还不是那么严重，你的选择会更多，更容易挑个脾气性格相投的，其实这样婚姻更持久。
50多的男生，我感觉基本要考虑养老，这个时候一个知性，靠的住的老伴更重要。年轻的估计在你生病的时候没有耐心斥候，另外还会有她的同龄的男的在身边撬。你的银子要多彩吸引的住她。反而，同龄50+的华女很多非常优秀，保养的也非常好，或许是非常好的选择。
当然，以上，特别优秀的，有钱的男人是例外，不怕没有年轻的往上扑。杨振宁是你们的榜样。
Re: 妈蛋，女人过了40，素颜不忍直视
What are the most important qualities for a happy relationship?
KEY POINTS
Kindness and understanding in a mate bring more satisfaction than physical attractiveness or status.
A partner similar to you may mean less conflict down the road.
Certain personality traits make for more stable mates.
A person’s philosophy about relationships is an important determinant of the effort they’ll put into a partnership.
KEY POINTS
Kindness and understanding in a mate bring more satisfaction than physical attractiveness or status.
A partner similar to you may mean less conflict down the road.
Certain personality traits make for more stable mates.
A person’s philosophy about relationships is an important determinant of the effort they’ll put into a partnership.
Re: 妈蛋，女人过了40，素颜不忍直视
https://www.psychologytoday.com/
1. Kindness, loyalty, and understanding (not looks, status, and excitement).
When people are asked to list the most important qualities in a potential partner, kindness, physical attractiveness, an exciting personality, and income/earning potential tend to top the list.1 But once you're actually involved in a relationship, some of these traits become more important than others. Research I described in detail in an earlier post found that those whose partners meet their ideals in terms of warmth and loyalty are more satisfied with their relationships. Having a partner who meets one's ideals in terms of physical attractiveness, excitement, status, and wealth, on the other hand, is much less correlated with overall satisfaction. This research also found that having a partner who fell short on attractiveness, status, and excitement did not affect satisfaction if that partner was also highly warm, kind, and loyal. In other words, those more "superficial' traits were not important at all for those whose partners were kind, understanding, and loyal.
1. Kindness, loyalty, and understanding (not looks, status, and excitement).
When people are asked to list the most important qualities in a potential partner, kindness, physical attractiveness, an exciting personality, and income/earning potential tend to top the list.1 But once you're actually involved in a relationship, some of these traits become more important than others. Research I described in detail in an earlier post found that those whose partners meet their ideals in terms of warmth and loyalty are more satisfied with their relationships. Having a partner who meets one's ideals in terms of physical attractiveness, excitement, status, and wealth, on the other hand, is much less correlated with overall satisfaction. This research also found that having a partner who fell short on attractiveness, status, and excitement did not affect satisfaction if that partner was also highly warm, kind, and loyal. In other words, those more "superficial' traits were not important at all for those whose partners were kind, understanding, and loyal.