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robot2022 写了： 2024年 4月 27日 14:24天才？

不是天才，只是心地善良

智商和情商基本是由遗传决定的。

自信是根本。
陈毅 朱德等搞老毛的时候觉得毛的情商是垃圾

胜败兵家事不期
包羞忍耻是男儿
江东弟子多才俊
卷土重来未可知

做前两句，信后两句 = 真牛娃

不容易。Kipling的那首著名的“If”也是一个意思，前面网友提到的逆商也是一个意思。

If又重看了一遍，以前最喜欢的竟然是“don't look too good, nor talk too wise"，惭愧。

tag 写了： 2024年 4月 27日 17:08 不容易。Kipling的那首著名的“If”也是一个意思，前面网友提到的逆商也是一个意思。

If又重看了一遍，以前最喜欢的竟然是“don't look too good, nor talk too wise"，惭愧。

贴一下？

Kipling的这两首诗在孩子教育上应该有用：

关于成长：
If

关于友谊/爱情：
The Thousandth Man （千人中的一人）

One man in a thousand, Solomon says.
Will stick more close than a brother.
And it's worth while seeking him half your days
If you find him before the other.

Nine hundred and ninety-nine depend
On what the world sees in you,
But the Thousandth Man will stand your friend
With the whole round world agin you.

'Tis neither promise nor prayer nor show
Will settle the finding for 'ee.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em go
By your looks, or your acts, or your glory.

But if he finds you and you find him,
The rest of the world don't matter;
For the Thousandth Man will sink or swim
With you in any water.

You can use his purse with no more talk
Than he uses yours for his spendings,
And laugh and meet in your daily walk
As though there had been no lendings.

Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em call
For silver and gold in their dealings;
But the Thousandth Man he's worth 'em all
Because you can show him your feelings.

His wrong's your wrong, and his right's your right,
In season or out of season.
Stand up and back it in all men's sight
With that for your only reason!

Nine hundred and ninety-nine can't bide
The shame or mocking or laughter,
But the Thousandth Man will stand by your side
To the gallows-foot - and after!

道理深刻的不行

傅雷的翻译我很喜欢的一段：

千人中的一人
所罗门说
会支撑我们胜于兄弟

这样的人
我们去寻访罢

即使二十年
也算不得苦

这样的人
如果能够找到

二十年的苦
也还是极微

今天和孩子打电话，听到她原来的高中今年有个女孩被M 和 7个Ivy, 包括H和她们的B。 所以她们高中今年B居然录了五个。

pplar 写了： 2024年 4月 28日 14:21 牛娃。B是Brown吗？

是。