真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
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#10 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
我们小时候做啥毛毛躁躁的，父母就会说，又没啥上赶着，慢慢来嘛，好事不在忙中起。
与人不打招呼。就会说，你嘴长那儿是说话的呀。笑眯眯地给人打个招呼，下次见面就自然了。
要是有人背个东西很吃力，父母就会说，你搭把手呗。你又没损失啥，力气去了吃碗碗饭又来了。但别人就受益了。
这些朴素的道理，我发现现在都还受用。
很多人用童年治愈一生。有很多人用一生治愈童年。
娃的情商靠父母观察，并给予正确的指导。
与人不打招呼。就会说，你嘴长那儿是说话的呀。笑眯眯地给人打个招呼，下次见面就自然了。
要是有人背个东西很吃力，父母就会说，你搭把手呗。你又没损失啥，力气去了吃碗碗饭又来了。但别人就受益了。
这些朴素的道理，我发现现在都还受用。
很多人用童年治愈一生。有很多人用一生治愈童年。
娃的情商靠父母观察，并给予正确的指导。
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#13 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
你父母说的话是宝似是旧人来 写了： 2024年 4月 27日 12:20 我们小时候做啥毛毛躁躁的，父母就会说，又没啥上赶着，慢慢来嘛，好事不在忙中起。
与人不打招呼。就会说，你嘴长那儿是说话的呀。笑眯眯地给人打个招呼，下次见面就自然了。
要是有人背个东西很吃力，父母就会说，你搭把手呗。你又没损失啥，力气去了吃碗碗饭又来了。但别人就受益了。
这些朴素的道理，我发现现在都还受用。
很多人用童年治愈一生。有很多人用一生治愈童年。
娃的情商靠父母观察，并给予正确的指导。
#14 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
父母很忙，这些都没教，小时候自己悟出来的，算啥？似是旧人来 写了： 2024年 4月 27日 12:20 我们小时候做啥毛毛躁躁的，父母就会说，又没啥上赶着，慢慢来嘛，好事不在忙中起。
与人不打招呼。就会说，你嘴长那儿是说话的呀。笑眯眯地给人打个招呼，下次见面就自然了。
要是有人背个东西很吃力，父母就会说，你搭把手呗。你又没损失啥，力气去了吃碗碗饭又来了。但别人就受益了。
这些朴素的道理，我发现现在都还受用。
很多人用童年治愈一生。有很多人用一生治愈童年。
娃的情商靠父母观察，并给予正确的指导。
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#20 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
胜败兵家事不期
包羞忍耻是男儿
江东弟子多才俊
卷土重来未可知
做前两句，信后两句 = 真牛娃
包羞忍耻是男儿
江东弟子多才俊
卷土重来未可知
做前两句，信后两句 = 真牛娃
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我生平曾有过许多快乐的日子，我曾在节日的宴会上跟着讲笑话的人一起大笑，我曾在雨后的清晨写过许多飘逸的诗篇。
#22 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
不容易。Kipling的那首著名的“If”也是一个意思，前面网友提到的逆商也是一个意思。
If又重看了一遍，以前最喜欢的竟然是“don't look too good, nor talk too wise"，惭愧。
If又重看了一遍，以前最喜欢的竟然是“don't look too good, nor talk too wise"，惭愧。
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我生平曾有过许多快乐的日子，我曾在节日的宴会上跟着讲笑话的人一起大笑，我曾在雨后的清晨写过许多飘逸的诗篇。
#23 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
贴一下？tag 写了： 2024年 4月 27日 17:08 不容易。Kipling的那首著名的“If”也是一个意思，前面网友提到的逆商也是一个意思。
If又重看了一遍，以前最喜欢的竟然是“don't look too good, nor talk too wise"，惭愧。
#26 Re: 真牛娃 = 智商 + 情商
Kipling的这两首诗在孩子教育上应该有用：
关于成长：
If
关于友谊/爱情：
The Thousandth Man （千人中的一人）
One man in a thousand, Solomon says.
Will stick more close than a brother.
And it's worth while seeking him half your days
If you find him before the other.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine depend
On what the world sees in you,
But the Thousandth Man will stand your friend
With the whole round world agin you.
'Tis neither promise nor prayer nor show
Will settle the finding for 'ee.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em go
By your looks, or your acts, or your glory.
But if he finds you and you find him,
The rest of the world don't matter;
For the Thousandth Man will sink or swim
With you in any water.
You can use his purse with no more talk
Than he uses yours for his spendings,
And laugh and meet in your daily walk
As though there had been no lendings.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em call
For silver and gold in their dealings;
But the Thousandth Man he's worth 'em all
Because you can show him your feelings.
His wrong's your wrong, and his right's your right,
In season or out of season.
Stand up and back it in all men's sight
With that for your only reason!
Nine hundred and ninety-nine can't bide
The shame or mocking or laughter,
But the Thousandth Man will stand by your side
To the gallows-foot - and after!
关于成长：
If
关于友谊/爱情：
The Thousandth Man （千人中的一人）
One man in a thousand, Solomon says.
Will stick more close than a brother.
And it's worth while seeking him half your days
If you find him before the other.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine depend
On what the world sees in you,
But the Thousandth Man will stand your friend
With the whole round world agin you.
'Tis neither promise nor prayer nor show
Will settle the finding for 'ee.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em go
By your looks, or your acts, or your glory.
But if he finds you and you find him,
The rest of the world don't matter;
For the Thousandth Man will sink or swim
With you in any water.
You can use his purse with no more talk
Than he uses yours for his spendings,
And laugh and meet in your daily walk
As though there had been no lendings.
Nine hundred and ninety-nine of 'em call
For silver and gold in their dealings;
But the Thousandth Man he's worth 'em all
Because you can show him your feelings.
His wrong's your wrong, and his right's your right,
In season or out of season.
Stand up and back it in all men's sight
With that for your only reason!
Nine hundred and ninety-nine can't bide
The shame or mocking or laughter,
But the Thousandth Man will stand by your side
To the gallows-foot - and after!
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我生平曾有过许多快乐的日子，我曾在节日的宴会上跟着讲笑话的人一起大笑，我曾在雨后的清晨写过许多飘逸的诗篇。